The Gifts of Homosexuality

Excedpted from the Hidden Spirituality of Men: Ten Metaphors to Awaken the Sacred Masculine by Matthew Fox* (New World Library, 2008)

It Really is quite astounding to me that Nature is so committed to sexual diversity and homosexuality. Studies Have Shown That About 8-10 percent of Any Given Human Population is gay or lesbian, and mons of these persons are Born from Heterosexual Parents.
What are the Odds of This Happening Randomly? Why does Nature Insist on homosexuality as an ordinary and persistent sexual diversity?

There must be a reason or resons. My Own Guess is That Homosexuals Offer Humanity Certain Vital Gifts That Society would be foolish to Refuse. Here is a list of Four:

1. The Gift of Creativity. No one can look at the work of homosexuals and not be struck by the inordinate Amount of creativity that homosexual individuals and communities try to society. This creativity is evident in the arts as well as the sciences, and it extends to the exercise of sexual practices itself.

2. A Flexible Perspective on Gender Provides a Kind of Bridge Beteween Men and Women. Heterosexuals in Particular Can Become Stuck in Their Society-Created Gender Roles, and homosexuals Remind Everyone That Sexuality Exists in The Realm of Metaphor and Not Literalism. When one's sexual role is not determined by one's body parts, life, images, and passion as Alive.
David Deida Observes That “The Gay and Lesbian Community is acutely aware that the sexual polarity is Independent of Gender.
But You Still Need Two Poles For A Passonate Play of Sexuality to Persist in A Relationship: Masculine and Feminine, Top and Bottom, Butch and Femme - Whatever you want to call these mutual poles of sexual play. " Gays and Lesbians have much to teach the Straight World About Sexuality and About Restoring Passion to Relationships.

3. humor. By definition, Role-Playing Does Not Take Things Literally. To see gender as a "role" moves us beylond the ego, and it creates a space for fun and humor in sexual play.

So Often, Sexuality Becomes Burnedened With Shame, Guilt, Fear, or Self-Council, and So It Becomes Too Serious.

But Healthy Spirituality is UNSELFCONScious (AS Eckhart Pointed Out), and So Too is Healthy Sexuality. Yes, Sexuality Can Lead To Children, and the Lover Becomes the Father (or the parent), and that is a serious THING with serious Responsibility.

But Sexuality ITSELF is about Process As Much As Procreation, and the Lover Does More Than Create Babies. Sex can be funny, clownish, humorous, and full of laughter.

An inuit Saying is that to make love is to make laughter happy. Within Homosexual and Transgender Communities, Sexuality and Gender Roles Are Sources of Humor and Play.

That is a very important teaching. Don't Take Sexuality and Gender Literally. It is too important for that and too much fun for that.

4. Spirituality. There is a long history in many cultures of homosexuals as spiritual leaders. Many Years ago, A Native American Woman Took Me Aside and Said to Me That It is well Known Among Native AmericanS THAT GAY PERSONS HAVE ALWAYS Been The Spiritual Directors to Their Great Chiefs.

Homosexuals, IT Seems, Don't Just Bridge Male and Female Worlds, But Human and Spiritual Worlds. A Homophobic Society Deprives Itself of a deeper Spirituality.

This Same Woman (WHO WAS Anso a Catholic Sister) Said: "When I Give Retreats to Gay People, it is Always a deeper Experience Than Just Giving a Retteat to a Mixed and Mostly Heterosexual Crowd."

. . . For all these rensions i am convinced that there can be no car masculine spirituality with the homophobia homophobia. In the face of a frequently homophobic society, it takes a spiritual warrior to do so.

But Every Man Must Refuse to Hide and Dare to Stand Up For Their Homosexual Brothers and Sisters, Uncles and Aunts, Fathers and Mothers, Children and Nephews, Nieces and Co-Workers.
The Gay Liberation Movement is Everyone's Movement, Just AS Martin Luther King Jr. Taught When he Said That Justice Denied Anyone is Justice Denied Us All.

. . . In The Realm of Lovemaking, what heterosexual man isn't Interested in Accessing More of the Four Gifts of Homosexuality I Listed Above: Creativity, Role-Playing Flexibility, Humor, and Spirituality? Eros Wants All That For Us.
Overcoming Homophobia is a Way for Heterosexual Men to Become Not Just Better Lovers but spiritual and Cultural Healers.

Overcoming Homophobia Provides Gifts for Everyone, Since It Also Helps Heal the Shame, Abuse, and Marginalization that Many Homosexual Men Have Experienced, Both As Boys and As Men. It Also Provides a Liberation for Gay Men and Women, and Resolving Homophobia Can Heal Generational Differences.

No Matter What Our Parents and Grandparents Might Have Believed, We Are The Parents and Grandparents of the Next Generations, Nearly One in Ten of Whom Will Be Gay. Healing Our Homophobia Helps Heal Them Before They Even.

Recently to Newspaper Articles Quoted a Heterosexual Man Who was told by a Very Attractive Woman, "I Thought You Were Gay." About This, The Man Reply, “I Was Flatted. Gay Men Are As a Rule Smarter, in Better Shape, and More Alive Than Their Heterosexual Men i know. "

Over the Years a Number If Women I Know Have Told Me They Kept Falling in Love With Gay Men (Not Knowing They Were Gay) Because Gay Men Understood Women I So Much Better and they project a More attractive interest in Life and the Arts and Their Own Bodies.

AS These Stories Give Evidence, in Healthy, Attractive Masculinity and Spirituality is more Than Sexual Preference and Gender Identity, and this is Something Heterosexual Men Can Learn From Homosexuals.

* Catholic Priest and "Deep Ecologist" Thomas Berry Contends That Matthew Fox "Might Well Be The Most Creative, The Most Comprehensive, Surely The Most Challening Rigligious-Spritual Teacher in America."
Following is an except from that part of the hidden spirituality of Men in Which Fox Talks About Honoring and Learning from the Gifts of Homosexuality.

Italian Translation: Let's get rid of homophobia and rediscover the gifts of homosexual people